Growing up without a clear roadmap for adulthood felt like being thrown into the deep end without a life preserver. Maybe you can relate? Whether it's learning how to budget, understanding basic technology, or simply figuring out how to balance life's demands, we all have gaps in our knowledge. I'm in my 50s and still learning new things every week—and my friend in his 70s reminds me that continuous learning is simply part of being human.

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There's no judgment here. We all have areas where we shine and areas where we're still growing.

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From Overwhelmed Young Mom to Practical Adult

My own journey began as the oldest daughter in a large religious family. My "training" was specific to being a religious mom. When I found myself a young, single mother with a baby to provide for, I quickly realized I knew next to nothing practical about navigating the world on my own.

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Looking back, I want to tell that young woman she's a rockstar. But I also want to give her—and anyone like her—the blueprints, scripts, and checklists I had to forge for myself.

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Meet the Guides: How I Integrated My Life

 

As I worked to move from "magical thinking" to a secular, fact-based reality, I realized that I wasn't just one person trying to survive. To thrive, I had to develop different "pockets" of wisdom within myself. I call them The Council of Four. They are the archetypes that allow my sweet, loving, and kind inner child to finally feel safe enough to flourish.

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When you read an article here, you are hearing from one of these four bodies of wisdom:

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